all my life my dad has said, "you need balance."
While people have many and varied goals that they pursue, there is an almost
universal underlying goal to virtually all pursuits: the goal to be happy.
People who spend a lot of time making money generally do so because they
believe that the money itself will make them happy, or will guard them
against things that will make them unhappy. If the focus isn’t on the money,
but on the jobs that bring the money, those jobs are generally thought to
make people happy. People strive for that perfect relationship, the perfect
house, the beautiful body, the approval of others, all in an attempt to be
happy. Sometimes these things make us happy; other times, we stress over not
having reached our goals, or we reach them and find that we’re still not happy.
Other times, we focus so intensely on one goal that’s thought to bring happiness that we don’t have time for other things in our life that will make us truly happy. This can all be confusing, and begs the question: how does one reach the goal of being happy?I like how it said (in reference to goals) , "we reach them and find that we're still not happy." It does seem that when we are finished with school and have money and a home/family things will be great! But i know we need to be happy in every single stage of this life. I am happy for right now. For being married to my best friend and getting to be with only him. Until we have babies..which will be different, but just another stage we will be happy in. I think that if we have balance in our lives and live the way we should, we will truly be happy. Some things i have been trying to do better lately to make me better "balanced" : reading scriptures more/prayer, eating right, running more, less computer/tv time, more time with family and friends, cleaner house, writing in my journal, service, being happy at work (even when snowbirds are cranky), and on and on...
I am working hard to be well rounded and know that even more happiness will come into our lives because of it.



And had an amazingly wonderful evening watching the suns kill the hornets. go suns.
everyone should have a suns date night! cheapest tickets are usually around 15 bucks. so, 30 bucks plus a few to park - its pretty much the same as going to a movie. 
Some other random things we've been upto... going to soccer games...

And this is one of my little projects. I went to Goodwill (on half off Saturday of course) and found two fabulous chairs. Not bad - two chairs for EIGHT BUCKS. One i painted green and the other a light blue. I bought some cute green fabric that is going to be on the seat...now all i need to do is find some better batting and a stapler.


Here are some pictures of their big day.. My friend Melissa and I..jpg)
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Chillin with the Crandells.
Amanda came down from Thatcher..jpg)
My hott husband - dont ask....this van was parked outside the temple. Pretty sweet ha!
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We are going on vacation for our two year anniversary 











